If you are thinking about picking up an instrument, this might be encouraging even if you aren’t going to be playing a guitar. Over the years I have played I have met dozens of people that have said they “just play by ear”. What does that involve? Well, certainly it will take a fair amount of time. Most things like this do. I have been wanting to write a sort of guide booklet for this scenario and maybe this is the place to do it. In my own experiences with guitar, playing “by ear” was certainly at the top of the list. Reading music was last!
So, what will you do to get started? Take time to listen to other people that play the instrument you are interested in. Who knows, maybe they learned it the same way that you will. We all have heard stories about our own musical heroes swearing that they never took a formal lesson, ever. Hmm… maybe that is true or maybe it is a way to promote the fact that they might have special, unique talent. I am no expert but i would put money on the person with no special claim to extraordinary talent that works consistently any day!
That said, you know you must practice. Take the time to play your instrument. It does not matter so much “what” you play, as it does that you spend the right amount of time doing it. I saw a statement recently on a friend’s FB wall that said something along the lines of, “Practice what you want to Perform”. I certainly agree with that. Yes, there are some things to work on that are more technique oriented than others. With the right mix you will see progress in a positive direction.
Ok, the next word is “accountability”. you gotta be willing to hold yourself accountable. if you are 9 years old then Mom and Dad ought to have that responsibility. Too often I talk with parents that don’t do that. In my opinion they are making a big mistake. Write out a schedule for your practice and stick to it. Do the same thing for marking improvements in your playing. An easy way to see measurable progress is to use a Metronome. I did not say I liked them. I said they are useful!
Using the right materials is also a big part of your success. You can buy every book out there and let them collect dust just as easy as you can pick one up and stick to it through the end. I have used Mel Bay books for a hundred years, well maybe it was 20. Since that time i decided to publish my own version of a lesson program. Talk to teachers and see what they recommend.
The main thing here is to finish what you start. and by the way, once you discover your “inner musician” you will never really finish.
Here is a list of some things i would try to look at if i were starting over. I discovered a few of these things pretty late in the game but the internet has made them readily available.
1. Learn how the guitar is constructed. If you understand something about the instrument you want to play you will know how to treat it and how to react to it. Not to mention how to respect it!
2. Learn about the different ways to write the “musical language”. For guitar this includes things like Tablature, Standard Notation, Chord Symbols, Chord Grids, Strumming and Fingerpicking patterns, using special tunings, using a capo, and probably a lot more that i can’t think of right this second.
3. Pick maybe a handful of styles to begin to familiarize yourself with. I never listened to the Beatles when I was younger. Now I can say that i am much more familiar with their music and that it has become an integral part of my own lessons program. Most folks that know me also know that I spent hundreds of hours studying the music of James Taylor and folks like him. That was long before i found a way to get into formal lessons. By the time I did i had decent “chops”.
4. Start with simple exercises. Don’t worry, you will be able to play something on your favorites list soon enough. Setting realistic goals is what a teacher can help you do. Most of us have enough time behind the wheel to know how to judge that sort of thing.
5. Repetition is the key to muscle memory! You can bet that most performers are not thinking so much about what they are playing at any moment. They probably have every single move memorized. Reading a chart during a performance is not very high on my personal list of favorites. Some things you will learn require movement that is so slow and exact that you may think you’ll never achieve it. Not true! Practice makes Permanent. so, go slowly and do it right so it stays right.
6. Try to learn a new thing about the instrument, its heritage, the types of things others are doing with it, and especially something about the language you are learning every chance you get. This makes it easier to be confident when you tell your friends you are becoming a musician. Welcome to the Family! You are! It is something that you can share or keep to yourself.
7. That brings us to another point that i want to make. Once you can play a little bit it would be helpful to take your music to a place where you can share it. In most of the workshops or jam sessions i have either led or been a part of i have seen people “warm up” and get really comfortable with what they know. Don’t be unwilling to ask the question that everyone else really wants to ask. You are doing this to improve yourself, right?
Maybe i will think on all this and add something to it later. If you want to make a comment or ask a question go right ahead!